I always encourage loan officers to ask for referrals. So it was a bit surprising when I realized that since I have been back originating loans, I have been TERRIBLE at this. Is being busy a good excuse? How about "I just forget"? And there is this one that crossed my mind for a nano-second: "I don't want people to feel uncomfortable."
WHAT??? I really thought that? Beat me with a stick and put fire ants in my shoes for that one. There really is no (good) excuse. It is simply a matter of making the choice to grow my business through referrals. Take the plunge. Do it anyways. Don't be a wimp. Be a winner, not a whiner, wiener (that last one is from Little Red Book of Selling).
So what am I going to do about my conundrum? I could have chosen to wallow in my own loser-ness, but instead I am putting it out there for you all to be my accountability partner. I'm actually going to keep track of how many times I ask for referrals. Yep. It's in black and white. My goal today is one. I'll work up from there.
I've put a reminder on the corner of my computer and I'll be posting my numbers on facebook on Friday. Here's an idea - let's do it together! If you want more referrals, you have to be willing to ask for them. Do it with me!

